"Choose Success".Did you know that you can actually choose success? Yes, it is one of the choices we actually have in life. (And of course the opposite is choosing not to have success? just call it sabotaging one's own efforts!) Success is all about a woman setting her intentions and expecting it to happen. Read on to find out more on choosing success.1.
Tip #1: Live an attitude of success. Success has to do with an attitude. And yes, you can choose to live a "success" attitude! Having success and being successful has to do with an "I can" mindset.
Let me explain. Successful people know deep down inside they are successful and they "can" and so it doesn't matter whether they are having a bad hair day or a bad hair week or even a bad hair year! Sometimes stuff happens and it may happen for a long time, but when a woman has the Spirit of success, a woman knows she is successful even if the external evidence does not look like it.2.
Tip #2: Expect your success. Success has to do with "positively" stating and saying what you intend to happen in your life and in your career. Say what you want and look for it to happen! Be focused in going in the right direction to make it happen. If you are not going in the right direction, circumstances will turn you in the right direction when you are sure of what you really want to attain in life. A word about positive statements: "I am trying to achieve my career goals" or "I think I can achieve" are NOT positive statements! "I am achieving my career goals" is a positive statement.
Always state your success in a positive affirmative manner. Suppose you do not achieve your goals in the time frame you set? So what! If you are still moving forward it will eventually happen when the right time and the right circumstances come into your life! Expect to achieve what you want. Look for it to happen.
You will achieve it eventually.3. Tip #3: Believe in your success.
Success has to do with faith and believing all things are possible, because God is directing your course and nothing is impossible with God. Miracles still do happen and faith has a lot to do with miracles. This is a true story: a friend of mine was looking for a location for her non-profit business.
So while my friend and a few of her friends were praying in faith for the money standing right in the location that they wanted, in walked a man from no where (so they thought) and he asked them what they were praying for. Of course they told him! Guess what! In two weeks this same man made a donation of $1,000,000 to their non-profit and he told them not to worry about moving in, because he was the owner of the building and he would make it possible. This is a true story! Can it happen to you? Look back in your life and I bet you too have stories like this. Maybe not the million, but of course stories like this!.4. Tip #4: Be passionate about your success.
Success has to do with passion! Yes, passion. How much do you want something to happen in your career or in your business? What are you willing to do to go after what you want?stay up late, put your saving into it, go back to college, stay in college, do not take vacations, live below your means, cut up your credit cards, get rid of negative relationships that have been dragging your down anyway, etc.! When you are passionate, you just no longer need an umbrella in rainy weather.
You get wet and just don't caret! When you are passionate about your career helping loads of people, growing and making money? sooner or later that passion will pay off. Be patient with your self.5. Tip #5: Give your self a break for success! If you have to kill yourself (now let's face it, I do not mean die!) in order to make it happen?.this has nothing to do with success.
Success is not about doing. What! Success is about an attitude and that is exactly what many women forget! Of course you have to do something in order to be successful. But give yourself a break. What happens in your career has to do with the big picture of what God is doing in your life and how you are helping to complete the picture of the entire universe. You will succeed and you do not have to over work in the process!.
SUMMARY.The bottom line is this: You can choose the attitude of success. No one can take an attitude away from you.
Success has nothing to do with what's going on outside of you. Success has everything to do with what is going on inside of you. When you have the right attitude, yes?You can do it and live a life of complete fulfillment.Be Empowered.
.Dr. Beverly Tillman, founder of Leap of Faith Empowerment Institute, teaches business and professional women and women entrepreneurs how to become outrageously successful in life and business. Dr. Beverly's books, workshops, tele-seminars, and coaching programs provide proven strategies for increasing profits, generating greater wealth and freedom, and enjoying a more spiritually balanced life. For instant access to free how-to tips go to http://www.
LeapOfFaithForWomen.com, or call 310-766-9949.
By: Beverly Tillman
